Here's the question...

When you change somthing about yourself, do you change it for others or for yourself?

Hmmmm

I think if you change the way your body looks, it is both. You may need to lose weight for health reasons. Or you may be tired of not having clothes that fit anymore. It's a funny thing that the best motivation for fat or skinny people to either lose weight or bulk up is someone telling them they need to change.

If you make a change in attitude or opinion, you are either a conformist or just confused about who you are and what you want out of life. Dang free spirits! You scare me.

If you change your clothing style, it is either a supply and demand thing...or a need to fit in (they don't make them for adults but if i could I would wear those husky jeans with the extra thick knees from when I was 3 yrs old). Clothes come and go with the times...please can spandex shorts with checker patterns on the side come back!

If you change yourself by the greatness of the things you possess such as cars, house, fine jewlery etc...you are looking for attention and for others to tell you that you are great. But you already know that...just makes you feel better than others to hear them envy you. I can't stand those who are the Jones' ! I have been keeping up with you all my whole life!

If you change your behavior. Boy this is s tuffy! I have been changing the way I behave for others all my life. Does that sum it up? Most people do, I think. Why do we never act the same as we once did? We change the way we walk and speak, eat, and definitely dance( nobody does the robot anymore, or the cabbage patch). You definitely change the way you have sex for the person you are with. You may have been required to change your behavior by a court of law, for instance...roadside carnal extacy is a no no in most states but Arkansas and Louisiana.

Basically change is never all about you. There is a reason, always, however small there is a reason and it involves other peoples oponions of you or yours of them.

My recent changes...

Shaved 90% of my body...why? My wife thinks it's sexy! When my blood tranfusion is complete I will weigh in on how I feel but right now it is hard for me to stay concious and type with the bandages I'm wearing.

Started wearing baggy clothes to hang out in, plenty of room and comfy, plus they don't make the stuff that just fits right anymore!

I started showing my wife that I love her more, it was a needed behavioral modification. That one needs constant attention! The results are great!