Have you ever wondered why jealousy is a problem for some and not for all?
Why are some people jealous and others not? I wonder sometimes why everyone wouldn’t be jealous at some point. Maybe when you care for something or someone too much that is when it rears its ugly head. Could it be due to insecurities in one self? I have no idea! I do know that I know people who care deeply for others and are very emotional, but never jealous, or are they??? Could it be that they are afraid to show that emotion, or express their own insecurities. Could it be the opposite and they have limited and closed off feelings for others or are they just too selfish and self centered to understand the way that others feel? I will never be able to understand what it means to be selfish. I can say that that I have intentionally hurt someone by making them jealous. That worked out well…But what if you are trying to make someone jealous and they don’t get jealous then what? Where are you then? In a vicious pattern that will lead to your own jealousy coming out because that person will see that it is ok to do the same to you. What a stupid thing this is!

Here’s a thought! Just treat others with respect. Let your actions and words reflect well upon the feelings others. Open your eyes and see what is going on now and what may happen, and consider the consequences to those you love always. For those of you who live for right now…consider taking a step back and look at the big picture, what you say and do right now might hurt those who love you the most.

Just my two cents